Feb 03, 2026 / Home Equity

5 Retreat-Level Home Upgrades to Help You Romanticize Everyday Life

We’re not here to trash-talk flowers. They’re pretty, thoughtful, and they say, “I was thinking of you.” But they also die in a week, and chocolate disappears even faster. If you’re looking for a Valentine’s Day gift that lasts and improves your daily life together, what if you skipped the bouquet and invested in your home instead, using a Utah First HELOC 

The best Valentine’s gifts show up for your sweetheart on the most ordinary days, which is where most of life happens. Most people would rather have heated floors and great speakers than roses anyway — they just don’t know it yet or aren’t sure how to say it without sounding unromantic. Lucky for you, we do!   

Here are five retreat-level home upgrades that will feel indulgent and thoughtful, even if they don’t come with a bow. You can fund them with your home equity and turn a one-day gesture into years of daily comfort. 

1. Heated Bathroom Floors 

Flowers say, “I love you.” Heated bathroom floors say, “I love you so much that your feet will never touch cold tile again.” Pretty romantic, eh? This simple luxury can make winter mornings noticeably easier for the next 15 to 20 years.  

 You might think heated bathroom floors are only accessible to those with sprawling master suites and wine cellars, but they’re surprisingly attainable. For a standard-size bathroom (around 50–75 square feet), professional installation typically runs $700–$1,500 — and even less if added during an existing renovation. 

Using a HELOC also spreads that cost out over time so you don’t have to absorb it all at once. That’s a smart use of equity! Heated floors become part of the home itself, which adds comfort and resale appeal and provides a legit resale perk. You’re improving your life and home value at once, which is kind of the dream. 

 2. Smart Lighting With Dimmers and Color Control 

There’s a reason candlelit dinners are a thing. Soft, warm lighting makes food taste better, conversations linger longer, and the whole evening feel more intentional. Smart lighting gives you that same glow without the mess of dripping wax or open flames. 

With dimmers and color temperature control, your home can easily shift from romantic dinner vibes to movie-night calm. Lights can fade warmer or lower as the evening goes on to create a theater-like ambience that makes staying in feel like the plan rather than the backup option. 

Homeowners with three bedrooms and roughly 20 lightswitches can expect to spend up to $3,500 for a full professional installation, but you can slash that cost with a little DIY know-how and pre-existing neutral wires.  

Because smart lighting is built into your home, it’s the perfect use for a HELOC. It modernizes your space, improves energy efficiency, and upgrades your lifestyle in a way that décor alone can’t. Financing it through home equity lets you enjoy the upgrade immediately while spreading the cost over years of dinners and date nights.. 

3. Comfy Outdoor Upgrades 

A cozy outdoor setup turns your evenings into opportunities for mini date nights: wine at sunset, late-night conversations under string lights, and slow weekend mornings with coffee and no plans. Outdoor upgrades help you create a space that makes you want to sit, stay, and enjoy each other a little longer. 

Permanent features like built-in benches, fixed seating walls, pergolas, outdoor kitchens, fire pits, and hardscaped patios with integrated furniture are the kinds of upgrades that buyers (and appraisers) notice. 

From a financial standpoint, these are classic HELOC territory. You’re improving usable living space, increasing buyer appeal, and investing in your home’s value.  

4. A Bidet Toilet Seat 

Just hear us out on this one. Is a bidet a traditional Valentine’s gift? Not exactly. But is it a wildly thoughtful one that improves life in a very real way? Absolutely! It says, “I care about your comfort in every moment, not just the cute ones.” That’s true love. 

A bidet is one of those upgrades people don’t know they want until they have one. It’s cleaner, more comfortable, and luxurious to the point that any other toilet feels like a step down. Without factoring in labor, you’ll spend between $500 and $1,500 for a bidet toilet. If you need a professional install, the total cost will range from $650 to $2,100 to replace your current toilet. 

Because bidets are affordable and permanently improve the bathroom, homeowners usually bundle this expense into a larger HELOC-funded upgrade. It’s a perfect use of home equity to cover both the big-ticket improvements and the small upgrades that deliver outsized joy.  

5. A Quality Sound System  

Every relationship has a soundtrack made up of the songs you cook to, the playlist you listen to in the car, and all the jam sessions in between. A built-in sound system funnels your shared playlists through great speakers so the music becomes part of your living quarters instead of something trapped in a single room or blasting from a phone on the counter — without ugly cords. 

Use your HELOC to give your Valentine in-ceiling speakers, wired surround sound, or integrated indoor-outdoor systems that stay with the home and increase modern buyer appeal. Depending on how crazy you want to get with it, you can spend as little as $1,000 for wired sound in a single space or up to $7,000+ for a whole-home integrated system — funded by your home equity, of course!   

Go Big This Valentine’s Day 

If you’re the type who likes to really commit on Valentine’s Day, you don’t have to choose just one upgrade or wipe out your savings account in the process. A HELOC lets you go all-in on comfort, connection, and long-term value without blowing up your financial peace, which might be the most attractive thing of all. 

Home upgrade costs vary massively based on the project type, how much you DIY, and what products you choose. A modest refresh and a full glow-up are very different vibes, but both can make sense with the right financing. 

Let’s look at what “going big” could look like. 

Here’s a realistic range for all five upgrades: 

  • Heated bathroom floors: $700–$1,500 
  • Smart lighting (partial DIY to full install): $1,200–$3,500 
  • Permanent outdoor upgrades: $2,500–$10,000+ 
  • Bidet toilet seat (installed): $650–$2,100 
  • Built-in sound system: $1,000–$7,000+ 

Total project range: 

  • As low as $7,000 for a lighter lift 
  • Up to $24,000+ for a full wow-worthy upgrade 

And at our 5.15% 6-month intro rate, here’s a rough idea of what monthly payments can look like when you finance using your Utah First HELOC: 

  • $7,500 project: ≈ $70–$75/month 
  • $12,000 project: ≈ $110–$120/month 
  • $18,000 project: ≈ $165–$175/month 
  • $24,000 project: ≈ $220–$235/month 
  • (Exact payments depend on your credit and terms, but this gives you the vibe.) 

Big spread? Totally. And that’s the point. It’s your home, your priorities, and your version of romance.  

Start a Project That Loves You Back This Valentine’s Day 

Ready to upgrade your daily life for the cost of a few dinners out each month while your home becomes more comfortable, modern, and valuable? Maybe you just want to start with just one or two upgrades this month and add more over time as budget allows.  

Either way, you’re not stuck choosing between improving your life and being financially responsible. You can do both with a Utah First HELOC. Get in touch with one of our friendly financial experts to chat about your options today! 

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